Most of us have certain expectations in relationships, whether that relationship is with a friend, co-worker, roommate, lab partner, or family member. Sometimes we're not even aware of the expectations we have, yet many of the challenges we encounter stem from those expectations being unmet. Unfortunately something as electrifying and amazing as sex isn't immune to this type of situation.
Did you expect to have sex several times a week because that's what you were used to? And now that you're down to only twice a month, are you frustrated and confused? Maybe feeling rejected somehow?
Did you expect your husband to rub your back without it leading to sex?
Were you disappointed because your wife only wanted her back rubbed when she asked you to rub her back?
A friend told me once that he knew without a doubt he made his wife feel like a million bucks one night and he was sure she was going to want a repeat the next night. He was disappointed to find out she wasn't interested. But he was crushed when she wasn't interested for another week! He couldn't understand why she didn't share his "you can't have too much of a good thing" philosophy.
Are your sexpectations being met? Do you know what your partner's sexpectations are? Do you think you're meeting them? Have you asked?
In the next post, I'm going to talk about why taking Sexams are vital to the health and wealth of your sex life.
1 comments:
That is so good. I was having a similar conversation last night, but it was more about affection. This is so true of sex. Excellent, excellent!
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